Wednesday, August 31, 2011

Aussie-isms part II

(fairy bread as mentioned below)



So I had a lot of feedback saying that everyone is liking hearing about fun things about Oz. So here goes another list of different words. And I will post about family life soon.


So one of my first experiences of different lingo was within a day or so of arriving. We were hungry and wanted something fresh and healthy after the long flights we took to get here. We stopped at a wrap shop and Lindsay and I were going to split something. I was reading the menu and it said choose a wrap and get 2 salads with it. I was thinking sweetness, we will each get a salad and split the wrap. Wrong. A salad here means the typical salad but it also means toppings for sandwiches and wraps. So in other words out of all the yummy toppings, we could only choose two to go on our wrap. It seems I have lots of learning experiences like that. That actually reminds me as well of the first time I went to subway here....I was planning on getting a meal, when I asked what chips I could choose from (because I could not see where they were) I was told a meal just meant that I got a drink with my sandwich. And that is pretty common other than the big american chains like McDonalds or HUngry Jack's (Burger King).



At restraunts we also got confused because in America you can order and appetizer, entree, and desserts right? And little nibblies are Or'derves if I spelled that right. Here Or'derves are canapes and and appetizer is an entree and an entree is called a main and dessert is still delicious dessert. If that confused you I am sorry, it took us a while to get right as well.

Some other food variations....

chips.........french fries

crisps..........potato chips

silverbeet..........chard lettuce

rocket..........arrugala

rockmelon...................cantaloupe

sultanas...........raisins

lolly/lollies.........any candy, not just a lollipop

-which reminds me we bought the game candy land to help teach erik his colors and give him a fun game. He loves it and asks to play the "lollie game" all the time. Yes he is slowly starting to turn Aussie. He says daddy with an accent and sometimes mummy. Its really cute!

-fairy bread.....a traditional treat at birthdays....it's really just butter spread on white bread with the little round sprinkles packed on top

-hundreds and thousands.............those little round multi-colored sprinkles just mentioned

-fairy floss.........also a special occassion treat.....cotton candy!



Other sayings we dont have in America.....


jumper........sweater/long sleeve shirt/sometimes just a word for top

-well done..........used much more than good job. A family that spent time in America on exchange with our military told us that when they arrived in America they couldnt believe how much we use the term good job and were laughing. After that Lindsay and I now laugh because we really do use that term sooooo much! Watch yourself now, americans use it heaps (the common term for lots).

-Aussies also say "good on you" a lot. This is a fairly new one I have learned about. It it used genuinely to tell someone that they did something well or something good for someone. But they also use it sarcastically like when we would say "smooth move" or something similar.

-"Fair Dinkum"...........Truthfully is the most similar translation we have for this expression. So for example somebody tells you they just ate a 10 pound burger and you reply - Fair dinkum? ...like seriously? or they tell you they ate a 10 pound burger and somebody else replies no way, then you pipe up and say fair dinkum....like..truthfully/honestly/etc.

-Upsey Daisy is common term you will hear from mothers when their child has fallen and they are trying to encourage them to get up and brush it off without crying.

-whinge/whinging............whining



And just various strange variations....

-Daggies..........grandma panties, old clothes.etc. but commonly referred to I have seen as grandma panties....totally cracks me up.

-Buck and Hen's parties..............bachelor and bachelorette parties or you will hear they are having a hen's day at the horse races where ladies get discount drinks or whatever.

-trolley...........shopping cart. which by the way some stores you have to pay for carts (yes even some grocery stores)/and yes I know I couldn't believe it either. Especially when you have a lot to purchase or kids. And not always cheap either. They have coins for 1 and 2 dollar amounts and some require those coins. Also that reminds me....kiddy rides you see at malls and grocery stores here are all nearly 2 dollar coins. I gasped the first time I saw that and am grateful that Erik is completely happy to just climb on the rides and pretend to ride them because this mommy isnt willing to shell out dollars for a 30 second ride.

-car park..........any parking lot/garage. They dont differentiate between the two

-teetotaller......no I am not 100 percent about this one. I know it means someone who doesn't drink but I am not sure if it means someone who used to and has decided to stop or just anybody in general who doesn't drink.

-togs..............swimwear/bathing suit/trunks....like go get your togs and lets go

-budgee smuggler........speedo swimsuit.....a funny term used jokingly in our home.

-cot...........I can't remember if I had this on my last list but it's a crib or childrens bed


Hope you enjoy. I am really starting to feel adjusted and am enjoying life more as I settle into my own new creature habits and routines. Now that our house is coming together and friendships are being really established. I can now get around on all public transport easily most of the time and feel comfortable driving as well. I can now say I am an ambidextrous driver! Yay for me.

Tuesday, August 9, 2011

confirmation

I just experienced something that confirmed my station as a mother and woman. You know those moments when you are young and dreaming of your future. The moments when you imagine sweet times with the children you dream of raising. The images are so vivid it's like you can see the snapshots in your mind of what is to come? I just made one of those snapshots come true to life and I couldn't feel more blessed or happy.

It was quite a simple moment (the best ones really!).....Erik has been sick the last few days with a fever and chest cold. His fever finally broke yesterday but he is still feeling very under the weather. His little motor body has been so ill he has been laying on the couch for two whole days with little motivation to do much more. Every time he tries he just comes right back to the couch and asks for me to sit with him. I have been happily obliging him, giving him all the snuggles and love I can manage knowing this span of time is so short. Well this morning he thought he was feeling better. He had been playing with toys a bit, we even got dressed today in the event of a possible outing to the park if energy levels stayed up (he has been asking to go out since he has been down) and then it all crashed. He started whining about everything but nothing was soothing him. I didn't want to get frustrated knowing that he was only acting that way because he didn't feel well...........so I did what I thought would help most even though he said no to me. I picked up on my lap, snuggled him in good and tight, turned all the distractions off and just sang to him. He calmed down immediately, relaxed, and we bathed in each others warmth and security. It was absolutely BLISSFUL! Brings tears to my eyes thinking about it. I sang for about a half hour and finally laid him in his bed to get a good rest. I could have held him forever.

It brought on thoughts and confirmation that I am doing exactly what I should be doing right now in my life, attending to my son and raising him and showing him that I love him unconditionally. Sometimes I wish I would have held him even more as a baby. I was so afraid of him being spoiled and then only wanting to be held when he got older. He is a well balanced child but I only had that opportunity once, I wish I would have taken it more. My favorite times were the middle of the night feedings. Yes I hated getting woken up, and the exhaustion that comes with an infant but in those still and quiet moments were when our spirits connected the most. I felt that again today and I am so grateful! I need to try to remember these moments more in those heated moments when whining for no reason is neverending and tantrums are flaring, my patience is all but gone and I want to escape to a desert island just for a brief moment. Because these moments make it ALL worth it.

Dear Erik,
Today your little busy body calmed down enough to let me hold you and love you for more than a nanosecond. Today you let me sing to you even when it wasn't "sleep time." Today you reminded me of just how precious your life is. You are the most amazing little boy and I am so proud that I get to be your momma. Your dad has set a great example of what a respectful man and provider should be and I can't wait to see you grow and develop into one yourself.
All my love,
Mom